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Memorial and Loss Information

"Everyone can master a grief but he that has it"

~ William Shakespeare, (Act III, Scene II). Much Ado About Nothing

This page contains information about many ways in which you can create a memorial for your lost friend.  It is intended to assist you in making choices and to present options.  No provider or option is endorsed by this site.

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A good dog never dies. He always stays. He walks besides you on crisp autumn days when frost is on the fields and winter's drawing near. His head is within our hand in his old way. ~ Mary Carolyn Davies 

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As you can see on the  PLAQUES page, they have been a frequent choice of Mill Valley Dog Park users.

Plaques can be made- up by

       Nor Mar Engravers,  41 A Hamilton Dr. Novato

        (located one block east of the Marin Humane Society campus)

    415-883-6677

> Nor-Mar Engravers

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The following links will show you online memorial sites.  The use of them is a very personnal decision, but if you should decide to place one, please let us know and it will be noted on the Old Friends page.

> Heaven's Playground

> Critters.com

"If I have any beliefs about immortality, it is that certain dogs I have known will go to heaven, and very, very few persons." ~ James Thurber
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Coping with loss
The emotions of pet loss are very personal and each person  manages their loss in very personal and often unique ways.  These sites do not guarantee resolution, but offer advice and relate the experiences of others. 

> Life Script

> Ten Tips on Coping with Pet Loss

> Home Vet

> Humane Society of the US

> WEB MD

> How to express sympathy

The following excellent reference list was suggested by Rachel Wolfe

> Pet Loss Cards and Inspirational Items

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"We can judge the heart of a man by his treatment of animals."
~ Immanual Kant
The following sites offer many memorial choices.  None are endorsed by this site.  You will find links below the last one that allow you to enter and read comments about these sites.

> Always Remembered

> Plaques and More

> Peternity

> T & S Pet Memorials

> Pet Loss

"For those who love dogs, it would be the worst form of a lie to call any place where dogs were banned "Paradise." Certainly no loving God would separate people from their canine friends for eternity."  ~ Stanley Coren, dog psychologist

> Eternal Paw Prints

> Forever In My Heart

> Artistic Etching

> memorial comments  > view memorial comments

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MAJOR

Born a dog
Died a gentleman

~ Epitaph on a dog's gravestone in Maryland, USA

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TROUBLE

 He was no trouble

~ Epitaph on a dog's grave marker 

Presidio Pet Cemetery, San Francisco, California, USA

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"The Housedog's Grave"
~ 1941 ~
By Robinson Jeffers
[American Poet 1887-1962 - see note below]
 

I've changed my ways a little, I cannot now
Run with you in the evenings along the shore,
Except in a kind of dream; and you, if you dream a moment
You see me there. 

So leave awhile the paw-marks on the front door
Where I used to scratch to go out or in,
And you'd soon open; leave on the kitchen floor
The marks of my drinking-pan.

I cannot lie by your fire as I used to do
On the warm stone,
Nor at the foot of your bed; no, all the nights through
I lie alone.

But your kind thought has laid me less than six feet
Outside your window where firelight so often plays,
And where you sit to read -- and I fear often grieving for me --
Every night your lamplight lies on my place.

You, man and woman, live so long, it is hard
To think of you ever dying.
A little dog would get tired, living so long.
I hope that you when you are lying

Under the ground like me your lives will appear
As good and joyful as mine.
No, dears, that's too much hope: you are not so well cared for
As I have been.

And never have known the passionate undivided
Fidelities that I knew.
Your minds are perhaps too active, too many-sided . . . .
But to me you were true.

You were never masters, but friends. I was your friend.
I loved you well, and was loved. Deep love endures
To the end and far past the end. If this is my end,
I am not lonely. I am not afraid. I am still yours
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Robinson Jeffers lived in Carmel from 1913 until his death in 1962.  You can visit his home- Tor House- when you are there.

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The Power of the Dog  
Rudyard Kipling loved his dogs.  This fatalistic and all-too-accurate poem is well-known to dog-lovers.

> The Power of the dog

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Epitaph to a Dog is a poem by the English poet Lord Byron. It was written in 1808 in honor of his Newfoundland dog, Boatswain, who had just died of rabies. When Boatswain contracted the disease, Byron reportedly nursed him without any fear of becoming bitten and infected.[1] The poem is inscribed on Boatswain's tomb, which is larger than Byron's, at Newstead Abbey, Byron's estate.[2]

> Epitaph to a Dog

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EULOGY TO A DOG

Old Drum, an American Foxhound whose death at the hands of a neighbor was the subject of a lawsuit and George Graham Vest's famous closing argument; "Eulogy to a Dog."  This is the most famous legal presentation involving a dog in American history.  Vest was a lawyer representing a farmer distraught over the senseless shooting of his dog, Old Drum. Click here to read it.

> Eulogy to a Dog

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Here are more inspirational writings ~

> Canine Inspiration